Are we being accountable for our actions?
How often have we heard or said one or more of the following?-
“It is her or his fault that…”
- “He (she) just doesn’t like me.”
- “It’s the bank’s fault (or car dealer, or store or some other business)”
- “They (he or she) wouldn’t listen to me”
- “It’s not my job.”
My all-time favorite statement
is from the late comedian Flip Wilson, “The devil made me do it.”
Granted there are things
beyond our control – the weather, the economy, the price of gas, company
policies, etc. But there are many situations in which we can and should stand
up and accept accountability for our actions and the consequences of those
actions.
However, we are accountable for our
actions and choices, how we spend our time; how we communicate with others; our
attitudes and thoughts; our behavior; and the things we do or don’t to take
care of ourselves, our homes, families, and finances. In addition, being
accountable makes life easier. It is much easier to say, “Yes, I screwed up and
here is what I will do about it” than it is to come up with and remember
reasons. Plus, owning our actions defuses tense situations. According to author
Dan Zadra,” True freedom begins and ends with personal responsibility.”
History
Lesson: 1945 – 1953 President Harry S. Truman, The Buck Stops Here
In his farewell speech to the American people, President Truman discussed the sign: “The leader – whoever he (or she) is – has to decide. Other people can pass the buck to him. He can’t pass the buck to anybody. That is his job.”
Another
History Lesson: 1980s – Lee Iacocca and Chrysler
Being accountable means that we connect the dots, linking where we are with what we have done, and where we want to be with what we are going to do. One of the reasons that former Chrysler CEO Lee Iacocca was able to turn Chrysler Corporation around in the early 1980s was his willingness to own his mistakes and the resulting circumstances.
Rather that blaming Chrysler’s financial
problems on the economy, foreign competition, or lagging sales, he admitted his
mistakes. By doing this, he was able to focus on working to improving the
situation. According to Iacocca:
“I made lots of them (mistakes). Let’s say
moving the Omni/Horizon cars to one plant and then to another before
discontinuing them, at a cost of $100 million, was a mistake. Why argue? We
made a $100 million mistake.”
By accepting accountability
for the mistakes, he was able to keep Chrysler from bankruptcy and, more
importantly, he was building a culture of accountability by modeling desired
behavior. Accountability is accepting the facts of a situation; acknowledging
involvement; and working to correct the situation.
Practical Life Application
Accepting responsibility for our actions and
decisions is another way of saying: The buck stops here. It means that we accept the
circumstance that we create for ourselves and for those around us. It includes
accepting both the good and the bad results rather than taking credit for the
good and classifying the bad as an accident or the fault of others.
Personal accountability is not circumstantial
nor is it selective. If we truly own a situation we can see and accept both
sides of the story – both the positive and the negative. For example, when
faced with a difficult situation, do we think about the following before we
speak or act:
-
What facts about this situation am I choosing to ignore?
- Have there been warning signs leading up to this point and what were they?
- What similar experiences have I had that might apply in this situation?
- How are my behaviors and attitudes
contributing to the situation?
“I…tried
my best to give the Nation everything I had in me. There are a great many
people – I expect a million in the country – who could have done the job better
than I did it. But, I had the job, and I had to do it. And I always quote one
epitaph which is on a tombstone in the cemetery at Tombstone, Ariz[ona]. It
says, 'Here lies Jack Williams, he done his damndest.' I think that is the
greatest epitaph that a man can have. When he gives everything that is in him
to the job that he has before him, that's all you can ask of him. And that's
what I have tried to do. “
When all is said and done will our family and
the people knew say of us. She did her
damnedest; he did his damndest? Accountability
is an integral part of doing my damndest.
Photo Credit
References
Harry
S. Truman Library and Museum Truman
Speaks, http://www.trumanlibrary.org/speaks.htm
Connors, R. Smith, T & Hickman C. The Oz Principle: Getting Results Through Organizational and Individual Accountability, 2010